Thinking Doesn't Hurt But Words Do-

 

Hey Readers,

21st December... a day so special for my parents as they got an idiot like me. 😝Hahaha... Everyone was expecting a boy as I am the second girl child of my parents. Many of them were not happy as they expected a prince not princess. Some statements were good as well as bad. But what matters for me is my mom's smile. She was too happy when she took me in her hand. She told to everyone this girl is lucky for me. So let's call her lucky. And so on... The lucky girl is here. Well... On my birthday I want to say something about a topic.

Have you heard a line, Think twice before speaking!!! Do you know the reason behind this? Once you spit out you can’t take back your words. We don’t have an idea how it may affect the other person. Right? Have you thought about this ever?

Most of us end up our relationship due to some words. Some of them will forgive you but will never forget. Sometimes we misunderstand other’s word. Those words might not meant to be rude or rough but we misunderstand it sometimes. Have you tried to analyze or take others word in a calm way? No… While listening to others word, we reacts quickly instead of thinking what the intention of other person is!!! Like… if your friend calls you STUPID or IDIOT, then what’s the reason behind to fire back to that friend? May be he/she feels that much close to you. Don’t you think it’s acceptable to call idiot or fool in a relationship? Haven't you called like this to any of your friend ever?

Some people say I will not believe until I see. Because they never trust what they listen. It's good but I think whatever we are seeing that might not be true always. So, I believe it’s totally depending upon how we perceive the whole thing. If you have seen or heard something then that doesn't mean it's always true.

God gave us two ears to listen, two eyes to see but one mouth to speak which guards a tongue as well. Here the answer is when we listen and see something our brain thinks about it and then it commands to our tongue to speak.

So always try to perceive the thing in a calm way. Don’t get aroused by others word. If you think that you don’t deserve that word then you can ask them directly. It may help you to know what the intention of other person is. It always shows your personality when you say something in public. Your words define how and who you are!

One more thing is our emotions are unreliable, they can change quickly and they make us to do poor things. Our emotions, our decisions, our thoughts are like a baby. They think they are unique (they are not), they think they are right (they are not), they always wants we should focus on them (as attention seeker they are). Still you need to behave as mature as you are. Yes, world will focus on you only when you will be unique, special and right. People may forget the person but always remember the soft words spoken by them.

“Think before you act; think twice before you speak” – Thomas Browne.

Now you say... What's your opinion?

With Love,

The Lucky Girl